Useful Quotations
Collection of good quotations to ponder
My favorite quotes from the bottlecaps of Honest Tea
A common mistake people make to design something completely foolproof is to underestimate the ingenuity of complete fools—Douglas Noel Adams
When the power of love overcomes the love of power, the world will know peace–Jimi Hendrix
The first human being who hurled an insult instead of a stone was the founder of civilization—Sigmund Freud
Things turn out best for the people who make the best of the way things turn out—John Wooden
Stop living life for what’s around the corner and start enjoying the walk down the street—Grant L. Miller
The ones among you who will be really happy are those who have sought and found how to serve—Albert Schweitzer
There is only one thing more painful than learning from experience and that is not learning from experience—Archibald MacLeish
If you’re going through hell, keep going—Winston Churchill
How people treat you is their Karma: how you react is yours—Dr. Wayne Dyer
The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good—Samuel Johnson
There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so—William Shakespeare
If we don’t change the direction we are headed, we will end up where we are going—Chinese Proverb
If you find a path with no obstacles, it probably doesn’t lead anywhere—Frank A. Clark
Success is liking yourself, liking what you do, and liking how you do it—Maya Angelou
Discovery consists in seeing what everyone else has seen but understanding it for the first time—Albert Szent-Gyorgyi
The true meaning of life is to plant trees under whose shade you do not expect to sit—Nelson Handerson
Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is more important than fear—Ambrose Redmoon
You never conquer a mountain. Mountains can’t be conquered: you conquer yourself—your hopes, your fears—Jim Whittaker
My goal in life is to be as good a person as my dog thinks I am—Unknown author
To dare is to lose one’s footing momentarily. Not to dare is to lose oneself—Soren Kierkrgaard
Why not go out on a limb? Isn’t that where the fruit is?—Frank Scully
It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world, and moral courage so rare—Mark Twain
It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent, but the one most responsive to change—Charles Darwin
Only a person who risks is free—Anonymous
The most misleading assumptions are the ones you don’t even know you’re making—Douglasa Noel Adams
Love quotes
We love because it’s the only true adventure—Nikki Giovanni
The way to fill your life with love is very simple: if you want more love, give more love—Deepak Chopra
When you’re away I feel like I’m only wearing one shoe—Alta
Love doesn’t make the world go ‘round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile—Franklin P. Jones
The one thing we can never get enough of is love. And the one thing we can never give enough of is love—Henry Miller
Love is the answer, but while you’re waiting for the answer, sex raises some pretty good questions—Woody Allen
The road to the heart is the ear—Voltaire
If you press me to say why I love him, I can say no more than it was because he was he and I was I—Michel de Montaigne
When love beckons you, follow him, though his ways are hard and steep—Kahlil Gibran
Love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking outward together in the same direction—Antoine de Saint-Exupery
From Good Stuff Magazine and from Kol Haneshamah Prayerbook and Assorted Places
Some people make victims of their disadvantage, while others are victimized by their disadvantages—Robert Schuller
The problem with Life is that it is so daily—unknown author
Life without love is like a tree without blossom and fruit—Kahlil Gibran
You can’t help getting older, but you don’t have to get old—unknown author
Faced with the choice between changing one’s mind and proving that there is no need to do so, almost everyone gets busy on the proof—John Kenneth Galbraith
There is nothing we receive with so much reluctance as advice—Joseph Addison
It has long since come to my attention that people of accomplishment rarely sit and let things happen to them. They went out and happened to things—Elinor Smith
If all pulled in one direction, the world would keel over—Yiddish Proverb
It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare. It is because we do not dare that things are difficult—Seneca
The noisiest drum has nothing in it but air—unknown author
Comedy is tragedy plus time—Carol Burnett
If you have to stand on your head to make somebody happy, all you can expect is a big headache—Irene Beckerman
The American artist Chester Harding, painting Daniel Boone’s portrait, asked the old frontiersman, then in his eighties, if he had ever been lost. Boone replied “No I can’t say I was ever lost, but I was bewildered once for three days.”
Three may keep a secret if two of them are dead.—Benjamin Franklin
We must accept finite disappointment, but we must never lose infinite hope—Martin Luther King
There is only one difference between a long life and a good dinner: that in the dinner, the sweets come last.—Robert Lewis Stevenson
A half-truth is a whole lie—Yiddish proverb
If you’re not failing every now and then, it’s a sign you’re not being very innovative in what you’re doing.—Hugh Allen
Nine-tenths of the serious controversies in life result from misunderstanding. — Louis Brandeis
Bravery is the capacity to perform properly even when scared to death.—General Omar Bradley
We make our decisions, then our decisions turn around and make us.—F.W. Boreham
Discussion is an exchange of knowledge; argument an exchange of ignorance.—Robert Quillan
A good leader takes a little more than his share of blame, a little less than his share of credit.—Arnold Glasgow
People who cannot find time for recreation are obligated sooner or later to find time for illness—John Wanamaker
We ought to be able to do some things second hand. There is not enough time to make all the mistakes ourselves. — Harriet Hall
One doesn’t discover new lands without consenting to lose sight of the shore for a very long time—Andre Gide
I have learned that success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacle which he has overcome while trying to succeed—Booker T. Washington
The best executive is the one who has sense enough to pick good people to do what must be done and self-restraint enough to keep from meddling with them while they do it—Theodore Roosevelt
It’s the heart afraid of breaking that never learns to dance;
It’s the dream afraid of waking that never takes the chance;
It’s the one who won’t be taken who cannot seem to give;
And the soul afraid of dying that never learns to live—Bette Midler
There are three wants which can never be satisfied: that of the rich, who want something more; that of the sick, who want something different; and that of the traveler, who says, “Anywhere but here.”–Ralph Waldo Emerson
God is that aspect of reality which elicits from us the best that is in us and enables us to bear the worst that can befall us—Mordecai Kaplan
The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong—Mahatma Gandhi
Middle age is when your classmates are so gray and wrinkled and bald they don’t recognize you—Bennett Cerf
I wish, I wish that I could know the places I have yet to go, the ways I’ll change, the things I’ll do, the special dreams I’ll make come true. I wish, I wish that I could see the life that lies ahead of me—Anonymous
Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever—Gandhi
No amount of riches can atone for poverty of character—Anonymous
Confidence comes not from always being right but from not fearing to be wrong—Peter T. McIntyre
There is a fountain of youth: It is your mind and talents, the creativity you bring to your life and the lives of the people you love. When you learn to tap this source, you will truly have defeated age—Sophia Loren
An eye for an eye makes everyone blind—Martin Luther King, Jr.
Try to imagine a time of true peace and tranquility, and think about your part in helping this time to come about. What can you do? What can you commit to? How will you be a peacemaker?—Leila Berner
To make a difference in the world, you must first dare to be different. When the truth needs to be said, when the work needs to be done, when the help needs to be given…you can make a difference—Anonymous
If you can go through life without experiencing pain, you probably haven’t been born yet—Neil Simon
I hope my achievements in life shall be these—that I will have fought for what was right and fair, that I will have risked for that which mattered, that I will have given help to those who were in need….that I will have left the earth a better place for what I have done and who I have been—Anonymous
Growth demands a temporary surrender of security—Gail Sheehy
Obstacles don’t have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don’t turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it or work around it—Michael Jordan
Every person and people that feel they have something to live for, and that are bent on living that life in righteousness, are true witnesses of God—Mordecai Kaplan
As the hand held before the eye hides the tallest mountains, so this small earthly life hides from our gaze the vast radiance and secrets of which the world is full, and if we can take life from before our eyes, as one takes away one’s hands, we will see the great radiance within the world—Martin Buber
Don’t forget to glance up from your keyboard and see how blue the sky is now and then.
Don’t forget to put away your cell phone and spend some time alone with paintbrush or pen.
Don’t forget to seek the sound of silence and let the daily traffic rush on by. Remember that the secret of success is how happily you climb and not how high—Anonymous
The courage of conviction, the strength to persevere, the hope that survives disappointment—these are the keys to success—Anonymous
There was a time I seemed to sail upon a vast, blue sea, scanning the horizon from some distant, golden shore, imagining that happiness lay just ahead of me in some wondrous, perfect place I’d never seen before…But as the days and years passed by, I came to comprehend that joy is in the journeying, not at journey’s end—Anonymous
From Brene Brown
“GETTING CURIOUS
Choosing to be curious is choosing to be vulnerable because it requires us to surrender to uncertainty. It wasn’t always a choice; we were born curious. But over time, we learn that curiosity, like vulnerability, can lead to hurt. As a result, we turn to self-protecting—choosing certainty over curiosity, armor over vulnerability, and knowing over learning. But shutting down comes with a price—a price we rarely consider when we’re focused on finding our way out of pain.
Einstein said, “The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existence.” Curiosity’s reason for existing is not simply to be a tool used in acquiring knowledge; it reminds us that we’re alive. Researchers are finding evidence that curiosity is correlated with creativity, intelligence, improved learning and memory, and problem solving.
There is a profound relationship—a love affair, really—between curiosity and wholeheartedness. How do we come to those aha moments if we’re not willing to explore and ask questions?
And…
. For experiences and information to be integrated into our lives as true awareness, they have to be received with open hands, inquisitive minds, and wondering hearts.
A critical piece of my wholehearted journey has been moving from judgment to curiosity about my own path. Poet and writer William Plomer wrote, “Creativity is the power to connect the seemingly unconnected.” Connecting the dots of our lives, especially the ones we’d rather erase or skip over, requires equal parts self-love and curiosity: How do all of these experiences come together to make up who I am?
Curiosity led me to adopt and live by the belief that “nothing is wasted”—a belief that shapes how I see the world and my life. I can now look back at my often rough-and-tumble past and understand how dropping out of school, hitchhiking across Europe, bartending and waiting tables, working as a union steward, and taking customer service calls in Spanish on the night shift at AT&T taught me as much about empathy as my career as a social worker, teacher, and researcher. I used to look back at those far-flung dots as mistakes[…]”
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- Philosophy of Psychotherapy
- Approach to Couples Therapy
- Background Summary
- Useful Quotations
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